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| Jeesoo Park, Journalist, Editor, Aspiring Author |
I
WISH I HAD KNOWN…
That writing
is a process, and there will never be an end point to the learning. There won't
ever be a time when you think: 'Great! I don't have to revise or edit, ever
again.'
I look at
things I wrote years ago and cringe. Some of the stories I've written recently
and am proud of now I'm sure will be cringe-worthy two years or even two months
from now. I don't think that's being overly self-critical, I just think that
being a writer involves constantly evolving, consistently transitioning.
Getting it right the first time (or second or third) is a myth.
Also,
cringing is okay as long as you can laugh at yourself, too. My most frequent
thought when looking back: 'Why didn't I just put down the thesaurus for a
second?'
THE
MOST IMPORTANT IDEAS OR PRACTICES I'VE LEARNED AS A WRITER…
1. Don't try
and imitate someone else's voice or let them influence your writing style too
much. It's always great to have literary heroes or someone whose style you
admire, but your own voice is valid enough. Don't try and obliterate it.
2. Just
because you think you've just written the best intro/conclusion/sentence since
"Call me Ishmael" doesn't mean everyone else will agree. You're
allowed to be surprised or even slightly offended, but be sure to ask why and
learn to move on.
3.
Particularly when it comes to longer pieces, writing is not just about what to
put in -- it's about what to leave out. Knowing what to exclude is a lot harder
than it sounds, and I still struggle when it comes to remembering this.
IF
YOU DON'T LIKE WRITING, HOW DO YOU MANAGE TO DO IT?
I always
think of this quote by Michael Kanin: "I don't like to write, but I love to have written."
So true. Writing is one of
those things that's completely rewarding only after I've finished. Sure, I
enjoy figuring out what words go where, which sentence fits best, and working
under the pressure of a deadline. I do not enjoy the anticipation of writer's
block, of potentially negative feedback, or the possible fear of hating what
I've written. In the end though, if it's done right, it's worth it. Just
picture the light at the end of the tunnel!
WHAT
HELPED ME BECOME A CONFIDENT WRITER…
Taking
classes and lots of re-writing have of course helped me become more confident
as a writer. But by far, the biggest source of confidence for me has been the
positivity from teachers and professors throughout my academic career. Their
willingness to talk with me and make me feel like my writing was actually worth
working on -- that was enough for me to believe that my thoughts were both
appreciated and important (Sabrina Kirby, I'm looking at you). Contrary to what
you might think, confidence-building is oftentimes a group effort, not an
individual one.
After I
emigrated to the United States at the age of five, I spent years barely
uttering a word. I couldn't speak English, I didn't have any friends, and not
only was I lonely -- I felt like something might be wrong with me. Reading and
writing are inextricably linked, and books and stories were what helped me
survive and feel like I fit in somewhere,
even if it was a nonexistent place. Writing, or taking on the challenge of
helping other people see or feel what you see or feel -- what an amazing thing.






